HOW CAN PARENTS HELP THEIR CHILDREN OVERCOME THE LANGUAGE BARRIER?
Language is an important factor in adapting to a new foreign environment, especially for children. Here are some tips for parents to help their child get used to a new language abroad.
Just like you, your child needs to get used to the environment.
It is recommended that you start to learn a basic set of foreign words and phrases together, such as: good afternoon, goodbye, nice to meet you, thank you, excuse me, I need help, my name is so-and-so and I'm from there, etc.
Most educational systems in EU countries have welcome programmes or preparatory courses that help children from other countries to get used to the new language and its culture faster.
For children with disabilities, just as for any other children, it is important to have learn a new language to adopt to a new circumstance. As it means requiring a new skill, this will take some time. Local authorities should advice on available educators who will support with this task, however your engagement will be crucial, especially at the initial stage.
However, parents should prepare their child for the fact that he or she may not understand not only the local language, but also the new rules of the educational process. It is worth discussing with your child all the new aspects of studying at a new school abroad.
Younger children will learn basic expressions faster and find a common language with their peers. Teenagers will have a little more difficulty, but they will cope with it over time.
The Effectiveness of Learning a New Language Abroad Depends on:
1. The child's communication skills.
2. How he/she adapts to their new school life.
3. Whether he/she can ask for help from a teacher or a peer.
4. Whether he/she can express himself/herself and explain his/her thoughts.
To develop these factors, communicate sincerely with your child so that he or she feels supported and understood. Over time, everything will work out and he will get used to the new situation. But first, the child needs you to trust them completely and help them.
How can parents learn a language with their children?
Despite the fact that it seems that children adapt quickly, they may still feel out of place in the new group, or different from everyone else. This may also be due to a lack of language skills.
For Younger Children
For older children, the situation is somewhat more complicated, because their curricula already have terminology, and it is taught abroad in a foreign language that they do not yet know. Therefore, do not neglect the opportunities for your child to learn a foreign language.
For Older Children
To sum up, experts do not recommend that parents constantly check whether their child has learnt all the foreign words they need for today, or reproach them for their performance at school or the correct pronunciation of foreign words. This will only increase your child's dislike of the new language, and thus reduce their motivation to learn it further. Remember that a child is unlikely to learn more than 7 words at a time. Support him/her, learn the language together and over time you will start to make progress.
Adapted from SPILNOINPL.ORG by UNICEF Poland.